Ways To Be Happy and Successful in Life

Over the years, I have gradually turned fun into the standard of doing things. I have discovered that things around me are gradually developing in interesting and meaningful directions, because my inner subconscious has gradually adjusted to: How can I make a meaningful thing? interesting.

It is actually very difficult for a person to be really interesting. He needs to be full of love for life, have a relatively wide range of interests most of the time, be relatively tolerant of people and things around him, have an optimistic attitude, be good at trying new things, dare to laugh at himself and be slightly humorous. . We don't need to be too demanding of ourselves at the beginning, but with the mentality of becoming an interesting person, and gradually become an interesting person.

Extensively read the book list

I have read a lot books, and my favorite is the book "Leave a Dream for a Year Off": The life we want, we will put it into practice now, instead of stopping on the vision page and becoming a post-retirement The distant dream! In addition, many travel books are also my favorites. The most fascinating and favorite travel book is the trilogy written by Fu Zhen-"Tibetan White Paper", "Best Golden Turtle for Wine", "Pan Ruo" "Not tied to the boat".

Another example is many novels abroad. The one that touched my heart most is Maugham's "The Moon and Sixpence". The moon represents a high ideal, and sixpence represents reality. Many people will fully integrate it with knowledge when it comes to reading. The interesting reading is that you only need to pick the life book list of the person you like, and in the afternoon of the holiday, with a cup of tea, you are deeply immersed in the plot of the book.

Every once in a while, set up an interesting challenge

Most people have repeated their lifestyles for a year for ten years, and only a small number of people seek to live a different self every year or even every month. Every once in a while, set up an interesting challenge for yourself. This challenge can be to run a kilometer that has never been run or even a marathon, or it can be an unparalleled dream list, or try to do it in public. A speech.

In this age, there are abundant supplies and many opportunities. As long as you want to, there is nothing wrong.

Since many years ago, I will set some challenges every year, and then shortened to every quarter, and then every month, the way of life is becoming more and more dense, maybe not every challenge can be achieved, but dare to challenge His courage and determination allowed me to firmly seize every opportunity that came up later.

Every month, meet an interesting person

The definition of an interesting person in my mind is very broad: he is not necessarily a successful person in the secular sense, but is more an ordinary person who does a good job in a certain field, or achieves a little bit higher than himself. To be honest, for a very powerful person, it is difficult for you to have a deep connection with him. On the contrary, they are equal or have their own strengths. Talking about the heavens is a real nourishment.

Every month, I am fortunate enough to meet this type of person. Every time I meet, my whole body will get goose bumps: Yes, it is him! Maybe it's because I'm an expert in the industry, and I have more opportunities to meet more people. So how can everyone achieve the goal of seeing interesting people every month?

Participate extensively in offline community activities, open your search sense, and find active connections from people with the same frequency.
In the online community you participate in, get to know the people you like in a quality manner, and take the initiative to help do something within your power.
Try to think back to the person around you who once made you stunned, pay attention to his dynamics and reconnect.
If there is no way to find interesting people in reality, then create a list of role models for yourself, put those unconstructed role models into the list one by one, and carry out long-term observation, learning and imitation!

Give yourself some interesting sense of ritual

This sense of ritual can be a sentence, a cup of tea, or a run. In short, you need to have a break or switch before a new start.

Watch more interesting shows

Over the years, I have enjoyed many programs: "Wonderful Flower Conference", "Wonderful Flower Talk", "Happy Camp", and "Seeing the Word as Face". These interesting programs make me laugh, or meditate, or be grateful. We need Some interesting programs make us more relaxed.

Learn the lives of many people through movies

More than once, I talked about the benefits of watching movies in public. I even think that the biggest regret of the university is that it does not watch a lot of movies. Watching a movie is the best way to learn about other people's entire lives in the shortest amount of time. In fact, the problems encountered in life come and go are similar, but we don't have enough experience to see through.

Grow in a group and learn from your peers

On the way of learning, most of the time is indeed lonely, but in the process of growing up, there is a chance to warm up together. People with interesting lives are independent and tolerant at heart. We have to distinguish under what circumstances need to work hard alone, and under what circumstances learn from your peers, so that our limited life value can be maximized.

Often laugh like a child

How long have you not laughed? Try to laugh like a child, the fun of life will directly increase five times. Lower the point of laughter. Many things in life are worthy of a smile.

When it’s so bad, choose to stay away from the current state

When it’s terrible, the best way is to give yourself at least an hour, put everything in your hands, and only do what you like best: whether it’s watching movies, eating or drinking, or crying, leave that let You think the scene will only be worse. Let you have a calm mind enough to return to the state of consciousness of interesting life.

You have to believe that you are worthy of an interesting life

When you feel worthy, you will do it yourself, the unity of knowledge and action, which is a kind of enjoyment and a desire to have it all the time. To be better after being worthy is a painstaking effort for oneself. When you get better, all the fun will catch up.